which is more important for a new tank like mine I plan on adding both on the long run but I dont have the $$$ to get both now so which first refugium or skimmer:question:
I'd get a skimmer first, since it removes gunk before it breaks down. Plus if the tank's new, it's counter productive to set up a fuge, since the chaeto will probably starve from lack of nutrients. Skimmer would be more useful.
In my opinion, if you plan on getting either one you should go with a good skimmer first.
Granted that the refugium provides additional functions, but with regards to removing gunk from your tank:
Skimmer - "Takes the garbage out and tosses them to the dumpster out in the alley."
Refugium - "Collects the garbage in bags and the bags are stored in the attic or basement."