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    RyanG ^*Eternal Dumbass*^

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    How come in the beginning of a relationship womens undergarments consist of silk, satin and lace and interesting colors and cuts? Then a couple of years later the fabrics get to be much more "natural" the fun colors disappear and the cuts are far less that flattering? What gives?:mrgreen:
     
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    bobby I like to do bad things.

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    By then you're done trapped, then it just don't matter anymore. They don't need them to lure into their sex trap.LOL
     
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    AdeptMrSniffles I have a Blue Thumb

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    They've more than likely gained weight and don't feel flattering anymore. You should suggest she start wearing stuff like that again.
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    ok ryan from a woman thats not always the case in some relationships as they move further along the undergarments get sexier i guess it just depends on the woman and the realtionship
     
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    RyanG ^*Eternal Dumbass*^

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    Im not trapped. nor will I be.
     
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    RyanG ^*Eternal Dumbass*^

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    Well Mrs. Littlejoker, its great to know that some of you still try! There is still a box from valetines day with some very nice and expensive daily wear under garments that havent ever been removed or had the tags taken off. How romantic.
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    sorry to hear that ryan but that is part of keeping a healthy happy relatinship is keeping spark in it so i font know why women turn into their mothers after a certain length of time in a relationship cuz to me its all about lil surprises and keeping thingd new and interesting but thats my:twocents:
     
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    RyanG ^*Eternal Dumbass*^

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    Im with ya 100%, after a few years of trying I think Ive reached my giving up point though :(. There are other extenuating circumstanced too but thats not something I want to get into in a public place.
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    i totally understand when the personal life gets thrown in public but as i said from a woman thats just the way i see it and relationships:mrgreen:
     
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    RyanG ^*Eternal Dumbass*^

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    Thanks for your reassurance!
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    your welcome :mrgreen:
     
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    Bifferwine I am a girl

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    How about the other way around. When the woman still wears those things, but the man no longer is interested, no longer seems to care, and no longer seems to notice. How about that? And what if the woman hasn't even gained a pound since they started dating? How about that?
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    +1 biff relationships are about both willing to make it sizzle not get boring
     
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    lightcs4 Loving to learn

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    I was going to stay out of this but ... That just means the man needs to slapped back into being a man
     
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    Bifferwine I am a girl

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    Or how about if, not too long ago, the woman bought herself two nice little outfits (which are not by any means cheap), and put one on in time for the guy to get home from work to "surprise" him. And you want to know why the second outfit is still in the bag, and has never been worn? Because his response to seeing the woman in the first one was, "Why are you wearing that?"

    Just sayin'.
     
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    Bifferwine I am a girl

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    Sometimes relationships suck. But you have to decide where you are willing to settle, and where you are not willing to compromise. Those lines are different for everyone. If your relationship is at a point where you are being forced to tolerate things that you have decided that you just can't settle for, then it's time to get out. If you are still willing to give certain things up for that person, and you can somehow meet in the middle, then you probably still have a chance.
     
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    lightcs4 Loving to learn

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    :shock::shock::shock::shock:

    Again, definitely needs slapped!!! I have four kids at home so I know what he is missing. I only wish I could get that kind of treatment.
     
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    lightcs4 Loving to learn

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    Actually, after thinking about it for a few minutes, he should get something cut off. It just isn't right.
     
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    Bifferwine I am a girl

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    I suppose people just get bored with each other after a while. Part of it is that he has gained a lot of weight since we started dating (about 40 lbs). He was in awesome shape when we met, and after two years is now looking "his age". I don't know if it's just me trying to make myself feel better, but I like to think that it is more of an issue with his self confidence, and not an issue with me (he talks about how he is not happy with how he looks all the time).
     
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    lightcs4 Loving to learn

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    Guys get concerned with how they look too. I know at 41 I'm not in the shape I was at 21 (although I lost 17 lbs so far, down to 168 - just had to brag :mrgreen:). The military puts a lot of focus on weight, so it may be a real difficult issue with him. I don't make weigh-in, I don't get a promotion. It is also a lot easier keeping in shape when they are running you three or four times a week.

    However, there is a point at which it is not all about sex. That doesn't mean it is not important or wanted, but that there is more tying a relationship together than how good things are in the bedroom. Not sure if it makes sense to you, but hope it helps.
     
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