WTF...Im Gone!!!

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    Smitty

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    Yeah, she saw me, she was in the front room as I was taking the ph's, skimmer and supplies in the cabinet. We said nothing to each other.
     
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    SeaBee Ha Ha Thats Funny!

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    YOu go boy!!!!!
     
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    EliWhitney314 Phish Head

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    Can't wait to see your new tank
     
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    yea and i bet there was that strong pressure and tension in the air...
     
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    Lmao...guess who just called me...yeah, my wife. She had the audacity to ask me if I wanted to come home so that we can talk and try to work on the marriage again. I told her that I was in a better place and that we could never be as one again. I told her that my tank was the last straw and that I'm never coming back home, only to get my boys on the weekends. She apologized for the tank, so at least I can respect her for that, but can never love her again neither. So, she tried to get me back, but I'm not going back. "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"!
     
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    EliWhitney314 Phish Head

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    Yikes. It's good that she said she was sorry but...

    Did she try and defend why she did it?
     
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    probably not... and even if she did, do you really think that anything that she could say at this point would make any sence, or that anyone would really give a :pooh:
     
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    daugherty part time reefer

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    just keep swimming just keep swimming and dont look back.
     
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    Yep, she tried. She said that she let her emotions get the best of her and she over reacted by damaging what she knew I loved most, cause she thought that I was out trying to hurt her. Which she found out that I would not hurt her, and that I was out looking for her xmas gift and not messing around. So yes, she feels like an ass now, cause its all her fault! And she has lost me forever...
     
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    and your better off for it, too, i'm sure....
     
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    fastrd400 It wasn't me! Moderator

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    So I'm thinking................................anger management course! Sounds like the perfect Christmas gift. LMAO, bet she'd love you forever if you got her that.
     
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    oh god, just the mention of it, even if its a joke, just make up a fake coupon, like a prepaid gift certificate to "mr. t's anger management class, where you gotta control yourself, FOOL!" hehehehe
     
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    Lol...that's funny. It wouldn't do any good. Some people just refuse to change.
     
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    So to quote my favorite line from Starship Troopers "Ain't it great how they want to be your friend right after they rip your guts out?"
     
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    fastrd400 It wasn't me! Moderator

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    Not saying it would do any good. But the look on her face when she got it would be priceless. Video that :pooh: when she opens it and Youtube it. :bounce:
     
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    damn right! hehehehe
     
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    ltljokersbetterhalf ltljokers #1

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    i agree Smitty there are people in this world that refuse to change no matter how good they have it, atleast you finally got out of it and will be much better off in the long runf from it. Relationships are hard and unless both are willing to work on the problem it wont ever get fixed. Ihad a smart person tell me that if both arent willing to change to fix the problem then its just a one sided fix and will never work
     
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    yea, its like a marrage is a canoe.. if only one person is paddeling, your just going in circles....

    i guess really thats more of a dinghy, but canoe sounds better...
     
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    wontonflip I failed Kobayashi Maru

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    Hrm...that's an awful thing to say that she wanted to hurt what you loved most....that's a scary statement because what you love most is the kids...can you imagine what lengths she would go to poison their minds against you?? In that sense, good thing she went for the tank and not for the kids! (sorry nemo)
     
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    My boys kinda understand what's going on, and they know that their mom is in their words "mean". To them, I'm the cool dad, who is a police ofc and have muscles, so they really admire me. So I'm not worried about her trying to corrupt their minds, cause they know how she is. I went over to the house and got them for the weekend, so they are here with me now. They all have told me that they don't want to go home, they want to stay with me.
     
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