well there are lots of things that you should consider, as for which unit to get, i would think that anything 50 gallons per day or bigger would be enough...
I mean think about it, your not gonna be evaping and or changing that much every day, are you?
when it runs kinda depends on how you want it set up... it can be hooked up all the time, or you can get a "portable" on that clips onto the kitchen sink, only when you need to use it, kinda up to you....
you can store the water, theoretically indefinately, so long as what you store it in is clean and safe and wont leach chemicals into the water. Personally i check the recycle symbols on my containers, and i only use #1 #2 and #5 containers.. from what i have read(and there is some differing opinions) any other # of plastic might leach chemicals into the water.. i prefer to not take the chance...
how much is wasted kinda depends on a few things, one is the membranes that are in the unit, another thing that effects it is your water pressure, and weather or not you need a booster pump like i do, or if you can get away without it. there are also "add on's" that will reduce the amount of waste water....
something else that can effect it is backflushing and how often you change the filters....
there are a couple good sites, check out pure water club, and look around.. from what i've seen and read, they have some good stuff...