wontonflip
I failed Kobayashi Maru
Bummer :( Lost my male clownfish. Vanished without a trace. One day he was there, then one day, not there. I checked pipes, sumps, overflow...no sign. I missed a feeding and he must've starved to death because my female is so aggressive that he only gets a little food. Guess he couldn't handle a missed feeding. :frustrat: I'm guessing the crabs and maybe even the bengai ate him. He and the female clownfish were my first 2 saltwater fish. I've had them for almost a year.
I'm so mad at myself!! I don't want to get another fish until the 125 is set up. Sigh. My hubby allowed me to get another one....but I'm feeling a bit lacking in confidence to put a new fish in...anyone ever feel like that after a preventable loss?? When I lost my 2spot goby for no apparent reason, I immediate replaced him. But this time, because I knew it was more than likely my fault, I am paranoid about putting a new fish in.
*Sigh*
I'm so mad at myself!! I don't want to get another fish until the 125 is set up. Sigh. My hubby allowed me to get another one....but I'm feeling a bit lacking in confidence to put a new fish in...anyone ever feel like that after a preventable loss?? When I lost my 2spot goby for no apparent reason, I immediate replaced him. But this time, because I knew it was more than likely my fault, I am paranoid about putting a new fish in.
*Sigh*